Shanna Farmer 
Abigail Adams: “Remember the Ladies”   
Abigail Adams, according to the National First Ladies Library, was born in Weymouth, Massachusetts on November 11, 1744, to a 
Congregationalist minister and his wife. Abigail 
was a woman who was five feet and one inch in height.  Although she received no 
formal education, she was given access to her father’s extensive library. At 19 years old, she was married to John Adams, 
who was a lawyer. She was thrust nearly 
immediately into the role of motherhood and eventually became steward of 
Peacefield, Massachusetts. During this time 
disputes between the American Colonies and England were beginning to intensify. 
A woman’s status in this time period was commonly subordinate to her husband. They 
were caretakers of the children and overseers of their homes, but it is 
impossible to believe they took no interest in the political upheaval that was 
going on around them for it affected them in an extreme way. How great an 
influence did Abigail Adams have on her husband who would become the second 
president of the United States?  
         
Abigail and John had been known to correspond via letters as early as 
their courtship (Foner). It is here she is able to express her deepest feelings; 
for instance she wrote to John, “And there is a tye more binding than Humanity, 
and stronger than Friendship, which makes us anxious for happiness…” (Somervill 
26). One might also find it endearing that their pet names for each other were 
from ancient history or mythology (27). Abigail wrote to John, “Judge 
you then for your Diana has she not this day had sufficient cause for pain and 
anxiety or mind . . . .” She is referring to Diana who was the Greek 
goddess of purity. Their bond grew strong from love and intellect as the author 
stated that would last them through war, hardships, and separations.  
         
Perhaps one of Abigail Adams most memorable letters to her husband, John, 
was sent at a time when he was serving as a delegate for the Continental 
Congress. As they were drawing up the Declaration of Independence against 
England, Abigail took the opportunity in her typical feisty and humorous way to 
let her husband that it was important that the weaker sex not be forgotten as 
they were creating what would be the first official document of what would 
become the United States of America. She stated, “ I long to hear that you have 
declared an independency and by way of the new Code of Laws which I suppose it 
will be necessary for you to make I desire you would Remember the Ladies, and be 
more generous and favourable to them than your ancestors” (Gelles 14). The 
significance of her letter essentially sets up women’s civil rights that would 
come later, but the fact that our founding father’s wives would speak for their 
freedom as well was something novel. Liberty for woman as we know it obviously 
comes at a much later time, but the attitude of freedom for all was there from 
the birth. She goes on to say that, “If perticuliar care and attention is not 
paid to the Ladies, we are determined to foment a Rebellion, and will not hold 
ourselves bound by any Laws in which we have no voice, or Representation” 
(Gelles 15). One can only imagine the spitfire this small woman was. She 
obviously did not intend to form a rebellion, this was her humorous way of 
making her point loud and clear to her husband. Something he could understand 
since he was majorly involved himself in just such a skirmish at the time. 
         
The approach the Declaration of Independence of written could easily been 
transferred to the rights of women later on.  
“When 
in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve 
the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among 
the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of 
Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of 
mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the 
separation. We hold these truths to be 
self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their 
Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and 
the pursuit of Happiness” (The Characters of Freedom).  
Abigail wanted rights as well. She told John, “Do not put such unlimited power 
into the hands of the Husbands. Remember all Men would be tyrants if they could” 
(Gelles, 15). She recognized that this move for independence could be used to 
help the civil liberties of her fellow sex. She was in a fortunate position and 
was tenacious enough to speak for all woman at a crucial time in our country.  
         
Abigail Adams, wisely used her position as John Adam’s wife to bring to 
his attention matters of freedom for all the soon to be American people. 
American’s yearn for freedom was not something that could be easily obstructed 
by their oppressors. The same tenacity that drove our founding fathers is also 
found in this small woman. She recognized that she could make her voice heard 
and the outcome of her opinion was eventually realized. Equality and freedom was 
something she sought for herself, as she supported her husband’s work as a 
founding father in our country.  
Works 
Cited 
"Abigail Adams Biography." National First Ladies Library. Web. 3 Mar. 2016. 
<http://www.firstladies.org/biographies/firstladies.aspx?biography=2>. 
Foner, Eric, and John A. Garraty. "Abigail Adams." 1991. Web. 3 Mar. 2016. 
<http://www.history.com/topics/first-ladies/abigail-adams>. 
Gelles, Edith B. Abigail Adams: A Writing Life. New York: Routledge, 2002. 
Print. 
Somervill, Barbara A. Abigail Adams: Couregous Patriot and First Lady. 
Minneapolis: Compass Point, 2006. Print. 
“The 
Characters of Freedom”. Web. 3 Mar. 2016 
<http://www.archives.gov/exhibits/charters/declaration_transcript.html> 
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